How To Forgive Yourself

"A bridge can still be built, while the bitter waters are flowing beneath".
                             Anthony Liccione

Mistakes are the one of the common method of gaining experience, and clearing your different karmic cycles.

Mistake is just a process of developing our mindset but few people create karma by making mistake whereas some clear their karma. Sometimes it is seen that mistakes did by us unintentionally create a deep mental wound which take too much of time to heal.

How one can forgive themselves.

1) Love yourself

 Loving yourself is one of the important way where you show love and compassion to yourself.

Loving yourself is the first way to forgive yourself because if you wanted to get rid of the guilt and hate which you are suffering. You need to work on yourself first you need to heal yourself. You must be thinking why healing is important? Healing is important because when you heal. You not only heal yourself you also heal your surrounding.

Always remember give yourself first priority

 The way you are treating yourself shows what kind of treatment you want from others.

2) Let go of past

 Past is what you cannot control you cannot change it is now your history. Now your priorities should be how to work on yourself how to work on betterment of your characters and trait. We humans are capable of creating and recreating ourselves. And carrying past is painful peoples who live in past can't see and enjoy the light of present.

"I think that the power is the principle. The principle of moving forward, as though you have the confidence to move forward, eventually gives you confidence when you look back and see what you’ve done".
                    Robert Downey Jr.

3) Accept your mistake.

Accepting mistake doesn't means that it is done by you in case where you haven't done any mistakes it means that, you are accepting that it is a part of your life and you are taking lesson from it and moving forward in life. Accepting mistakes shows that you have courage to deal with your problems and you can work on it. Always remember don't forget the lesson you gained from that mistake.

"It is okay to experience painful, sharp pain from time to time. You will need it to become a better pencil. The most important part of you will always been what's on the inside. You will make mistakes, everyone does, but that's why pencils have erasers. You can always make a change. Lastly, make your mark and continue to write, never give up."

                                                         ~Amy Hughes

4) Allow universe to work.

 You must be wondering how one can allow universe to deal with their problems. No one can handle your situation better than universe itself can handle but you have to completely give it to the universe. Completely means letting go of the past and always remember that universe has your back it will never work against you. Shower gratitude to the universe and you will see how fast it will manage everything in a magical way.

5) Deal with your thinking process

"Whatever you think that you will be. If you think yourself weak,weak you will be.If you think yourself strong, you will be".

             Swami Vivekananda

"We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care about what you think. Words are secondary. Thoughts live; they travel far".

                                     Swami Vivekananda

What you think you shall become because you are attracting that thing by vibrating on that frequency so if you want to deal with positive circumstances than sow positive seeds in your brain and visualize it too.

6) plan for what next ?

 After all these process it is very necessary to plan what you want from your life and how Willing you are to achieve that. Be very specific that what you want in your life find a goal and work your ass off to achieve that.

"Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life; dream of it; think of it; live on that idea. Let the brain, the body, muscles, nerves, every part of your body be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success, and this is the way great spiritual giants are produced".

                                      Swami Vivekananda

And now start your new life session but this time with all the basic aspects of self-realization including self love , gratitude, compassion etc.

7) Show compassion and gratitude.

As much as compassion and gratitude you show to yourself and to others the more abundance you attract in your life and by compassion and gratitude you can feel the higher vibrational frequency of self love and can also feel the unconditional grace from the infinite universe.

I am really grateful to each of you who is reading this may god bless you with positivity.

Thankyou.